Things that Ive done to piss off men. ----Getting mad if they #flake and letting them know what i think of flaking. (Flaking is either a sign they lack enough structure and maturity to be responsible or they were with someone else they prefer more. He should and atleast text Im not coming, cause thats called adulting.)
----Getting mad if they give lots of #silence. A term called breadcrumbing comes to mind. He's telling you he lost interest. If you matter he'll keep in regular contact. ----Getting mad that Im nagging about not being included enough in their life. Its simple. If you matter then they'll bring you into their life doing ordinary things and NOT call you just a friend to his friends. ---- Calling them out on how I see it and how things could be interpreted. You know I really look forward to not having to ask for good treatment. Of course i piss off men. Cause i dont put up with shit anytime or anywhere. I havent been in a position to really trust anyone in over 8 yrs because out of hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of offers, I have been approached with, not one was an honest man. Not really. If you want me to believe your honest then dont do things so blatantly stupid to move my distrust. I know honest men. Their family. My brothers. Some are long term friends from way back. I know they exist just not in the last 8 yrs. Im 100 percent honest and thats my expectation. Ill even let people see my journal which is terrible. Cause i dont have jack to hide. Secrets hurt people. Ive been right every time. I was side bitched. Next guy that enters my life if i do let them in will do everything i do to show honesty. People can look at my phone. I have nothing to hide. Because i dont cheat.