Don’t settle for less. Open yourself to someone who encourages and nourishes all of your quirks and odd passions. They uplift you, and see the beauty in all of you (as you, them). And you encourage each other to be better. Connect on every level. No, I don’t have a “boyfriend”. But I’ve made a long distance best friend. Possessiveness isn’t healthy. It doesn’t make anything less worthy. Be selective of who you let in to influence you.