TROLLS & NEGATIVITY
I just want to do a quick post on this topic because I recently experienced my first “trolling” comment. If you’re not familiar with the term troll, it basically refers to individuals who scan social media platforms and make negative or demeaning comments to others.
I really never understood this... does it really make you feel better to put someone else down? Why? I don’t get it. Have there been times when I disliked an outfit or a hairstyle or something I’ve seen? Of course! But I don’t see the need to share that information because it’s not about me or my opinion. Everyone is their own person and likes/dislikes differ. You never know how your comment will affect someone.
Now for me, I’m 27. I am who I am. I’m proud of the woman I’ve become and though it caused an eye roll, no stranger is ever going to make me feel inferior or embarrassed. Especially because I make myself vulnerable in order to share information with others.
I really wanted to comment back and say why do you feel the need to make negative comments about people you don’t know, on journeys you don’t understand? But I figure the type of person who makes those comments is not someone I can get through to and it’s not a valuable use of my time.
So for the record, I will delete any negative comments and block the commenter because I don’t welcome that negativity in my life. I happily accept constructive criticism but not insults. Period.
I’ll end with this: “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” - Eleanor Roosevelt as always, you do you ♀️
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