My hair has grown into a built-in fascinator! ♀️ Pretend the last one is the girl in the Peanuts comic strip who was always patting her naturally curly hair. Was that the Little Red-Haired girl that Charlie Brown had the crush on? Could also be Alyssa Edwards. Lippie is Glo-Minerals Suede Matte Crayon in Sorbet. I love this color, and that makes it easier to smile. I had planned to make this a #speedselfie but no I had to take too many pix, with different angles, some “flattering” and some supposedly not flattering. #CuteAF360 Out there in meatspace, people see me (and I see them!) in all kinds poses, and we’re not expected to only hold certain positions... altho now that I think about it, I remember when I was younger a lot of girls, including me, would be sure to not sit or stand in a couple positions that made parts of us look fat. Like, don’t sit with both feet flat on the floor (unless you were wearing a dress) because it would make your thighs flatten out and look fat. This was when I was a size 11 to 13 and was actually considered fat, not just chubby. Most other girls were smaller than me. Oh society, why you put so much pressure on your femmes? (Rhetorical question; we already know the answer.) ♀️🤯♀️ In the non-smiling pic, I was trying to be sultry. Hah. Just looks like my normal #RestingBitchFace (which is okay too). Since I’m not ready to show more of myself (even clothed) I figure I might as well use this time to get used to seeing more of my skin, and trying to see myself as softly rounded or something like that. I would definitely see someone else who looked like this in a positive way, so why not myself, too? Plus I want to do my part for representing and normalizing fat bodies. I don’t have to love my body. Right, just not hating it is a win, and maybe someone seeing this will feel a little better about their body, too. Big thanks to @clmoskovitz and @pinkmantaray for posting pix that took them out of their comfort zones, thus giving me courage to try it too.
The sun is out it’s a beautiful Friday! So happy for the weekend! And this dress is just making me so happy!! Was in my last Dia&co box! #mydiastyle
In other news...Working on some new content for my YouTube channel! Getting a look book together maybe another Lux De Ville haul! Have you seen my latest Lux de Ville haul??Go check it out.. link in my profile!! Plus they are having a sale! Go get yourself a cool awesome new handbags!