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"If you love her/him, remember that on bad days" ❤️ 👫 👬 👭 ❤️

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i think one of the worst things in the world is when people undermine sadness, when they invalidate feelings, when they tell you to just get over it. because now not only are you sad, but you are sad about being sad, and doing that to people is manipulating them into questioning their own sanity. why kick someone when they’re already down? what are you trying to accomplish?
i swore to myself i’d never undermine anyone’s sadness ever and i never will. if you’re sad, you deserve to be sad. i don’t care the reason. you could have done a horrible thing and your guilt is swallowing you whole and i will still empathize with you because it doesn’t matter why you’re sad; it matters that you’re sad and who am i to invalidate that? who am i to tell you to get over it?
i want you to get over it. but i want you to get over it because it is good for your heath to, not because you are not allowed to feel. mourn for as long as you need to, no matter how small of an inconvenience you are mourning.
because you are allowed to be sad. you are allowed to be angry. you are allowed to kick and scream and claw the floor without being called melodramatic. you are allowed to feel. you are always going to be brave for feeling. nothing good comes out of bottling up your emotions.
don’t be quiet because they tell you to shut up. don’t be quiet because they tell you that you are looking for attention. you deserve attention. you know why? because your feelings matter. no matter what. keep screaming your thoughts until you are blue in the face because it is always better to feel something than to feel nothing
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@valentinanikolenko
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“I. Today I confessed to my therapist how my baby hands were ripped off of my body and swallowed whole. I told her that my lungs shatter when I have nightmares of hunger lasting days and weeks and years.
Today I told her how the gully of my belly became a breeding ground for swimmers of all ages. I told her how I mourned until my waters ran dry.
She told me the only way to take charge of my body was to sit in the driver’s seat, never taking my hands off the wheel and to keep my eyes on the road even when they become weary with crimson.
II. “More than half of all road traffic deaths occur among young adults ages 15-44.” I will not be apart of a statistic. I will take control of this body of mine and wrap it around a traffic light until it turns green.
III. The smallest wounds are the most profound. My first wound was on my 3rd birthday when I fell in a parking lot and cried and roared until my mother held me in what seemed to be mucky air as my father put a bandaid on my skinned knee. I have always been a screamer. The ugliness of my wound has never properly healed.
IV. I locked my knees as I told my therapist about the time Dinah was not in control when Shechem had tore her achilles-heart and how hungry he was that he devoured her on only one plate. I screamed into the microphone that was oxygen and when I paused I took a prolonged breath; unshakable but with ease.
V. Long before I learned the alphabet I learned how to count the number of veins in me. I learned that the blue ones are prettier than the green. That the blood inside me simmers when I think of a ship sinking within four oceans at once.
VI. Today I confessed to my therapist that I do not speak, but instead I engrave my name into the mouths of those who have harmed me.
I am a weapon of choice in a world full of beggers."
SET ME FREE, Iris Blue (via irisbluepoetry)

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“i feel sorry for you. i feel sorry that you lost someone who loved you so much, someone who would have burned themselves alive just to show you how bright they could shine for you - you will never find someone else who loves you that much. you can search the seven seas but there will never be anybody who will love you more than me.
you just realized it too late, that i was something worth keeping. you let your insecurities eat at you, thought you didn’t deserve someone as kind and loving as me. and if you were right about one thing, it would be that - you were never enough for me. you never made me feel completely fulfilled. you always destroyed me, never made me better, always made me worse.
and i will find someone who loves me more than you did. i will find someone who would go to the ends of the earth for me, the way i would have done for you. i will find someone who puts me first the way i put you first. i will find someone who treats me the way i treated you.
but you’ll never find someone who loves you more than me. and you lost me and that’s devastating."
i hope this breaks your heart achingchest.tumblr.com

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hate will be deleted and blocked!

“and i never really got to say goodbye
but maybe that was my fault
my fault for thinking that somewhere in your kisses and your promises and your smiles there was an apology hidden in there
but there was no “i’m sorry i’m doing this to you” and no other explanation for the way you left or why it even happened in the first place
i guess you could say i’m confused, or still in love, but at this point i don’t know which one is worse
it’s been almost five months and i still lie awake at night wondering if you’ve forgotten the sound of my laugh or why my father and i don’t get along
i think maybe i’m kidding myself because it’s childish to think someone who almost loved you still cares enough to wonder if you slept alright last night, right?
it’s childish to think that someone who swore they’d never get you out of their head still remembers your favorite color and your middle name, right?”
not a day has gone by where i don’t try to hold on to the areas of my body that used to have your lips pressed against them
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“yeah, i know, sometimes people don’t really love you, they love how you make them feel and
i’ve been spending so much time wondering if that’s how you feel about me, wondering if i was always just something to fill the void in your self-confidence, but now i’m realizing how much truth is in the opposite, how you can make me feel like sunshine and still be sandpaper, and i’m starting to realize how much you’ve really changed me, how much better i’ve gotten, how much love you’ve helped me give myself,
and how little that says about you. because that doesn’t make you the person i have built you to be in my head, it just means you are an important part of my own story,
and i don’t know if i love you anymore. i guess i don’t know what that means. it’s more complicated that that and it runs deeper. it’s an appreciation i can’t put words to, an endless game of tug-of-war and the only one winning is my arm strength.
so i tell you we’re not right for each other and then clench my mouth shut when i have nightmares of you with other girls. so i’m trying to do things behind your back because you’re doing things behind my back but i know i’m doing that thing again where i’m over-exaggerating a situation because you’re not here to convince me it’s not true
but this feeling in my chest is more poetic than any bouquet of words i could give you, so i’m a walking poem, so i’m a little lost without you
but i guess i like being lost. i guess i like it better than surrendering to the darkness. "
arm strength
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“god made man, turned
protoplasm into prometheus,
man made poetry. man made
books about making poetry.
man has not yet stilled
a vague sense we are alone atop the universe’s
edge
come whisper me 
how much better your method
could unleash doves from ink, count 
palm-up every
if, then, so, but
i know much of silence. come tell me
you invented editing yourself small, perfected
the art of the void ; disappearing ;
when i was raised to keep my mouth shut
apologize for saying too much
let others cut my tongue - you call 
nothingness 
an economy of language 
he was my lover first darling,
i was born girl,
not small enough, sweetheart shh let the nice man
talk
silence is not a new pair of lips. i write with a mouthful of feathers, furnish this body icarus,
am unsilent about things many wish i hadn’t said. go explode art into lives, refuse to calorie-count letters, rant in long letters. academic men are bored of long poetry,
already famous for it. they are doing something new by choosing not to speak
in a space where they’ve always been allowed to. 
academic men are making a stand by choosing the void over the world they are
safe in. it is not their space. they are stealing it. they did not grow up forced into it. shout
back. fill pages with only semi-colons. what do you know about silence except as a concept, kid.
we live in it, we live in it.
make poetry make god make man ; make art
where an emptiness rests, 
use art to fill up emptiness.
there is no manual for this."
Shush // r.i.d
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photography by: @kikic_djordje

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"to women with daughters
hoping to raise subservient
domestic slaves:
hand your daughter
a hammer
before you give her
a kitchen knife.
or better yet,
let her choose
her own weapon.
teach her how to
manage a bank account
before you enlist her
to domestic service.
Do 
not 
leave 
the 
dishes 
for 
her.
Equip her 
with a strong voice, 
so that she may 
speak over 
those who may feel 
they know 
her place better 
than she does.
So no one 
can make her 
decisions for her.
Allow her to choose:
her own colours, 
her own way, 
her own likings.
She may not like
dresses after all, 
what’s the harm?
Encourage her 
to be independent, 
to pursue her dreams.
You were not born 
believing that your 
body is a factory, 
so why would 
you impose the idea 
on one of your own?
If you tell your daughter
that she is
in any way
less than a man,
the problem is that
she will eventually
believe you."

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"if you're laying in bed
wrapped up in sheets
of miserable thoughts,
go to sleep.

if thumbing through old messages
only causes your heart to ache and long for something unattainable
erase them.

if it hurts to keep
everything you're feeling
bottled up inside
let it out.

if you're clinging onto someone
that doesn't treat you like
you're worth the world
let them go.

because sometimes
we chose to believe
that things are only
indistinguishable shades of gray
when in reality,
life is more black and white
than it seems.

if you're unhappy
with the way
you are living your life
change it." -m.k.

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I fell in love with him, and his words, and the way he looked at me-like I was the only fucking girl in the world. He looked at me like I mattered. It felt so damn good to matter for once, you know? He smiled at me in a way that made my heart stop. He told me he loved me, and he sounded so sincere. I believed him. I believed him until I saw him looking at her the way he looked at me, with that soft look in his eyes that made you feel like the only girl in the world; with that fucking smile of his and how he talked so tenderly. And it made my heart shatter, in a way I'd never felt it shatter before, because it turned out I didn't mean anything to him. He was looking at her like she was the only fucking girl in the world. My heart got broken, again. How dumb was I to think he would be any different?

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"I don't want you to leave
but I've seen the way boys ring girls hearts out like wet t shirts
squeezing until the last droplets of hope fall to the ground
and I know which songs I have to change when I'm in the car with my mother
because they make her hands shake so hard that she can barely hold onto the steering wheel
I’ve seen the box of stretched out sweatshirts and crumpled up notes under my best friend’s bed from the first boy who broke her heart
and know how even after two years she can’t give it back
because it would hurt too much to let her last pieces of him go
and you and I, maybe we won’t set fire to one another
maybe it won’t be anyone’s fault
but life always gets in the way
like the obstacle in the road that you try to swerve away from at the last second
that leaves your car tangled around a tree
because love is not always the thing that saves you
and I learned that at age nine
when I saw the look on my uncle’s face
as he stared blankly at the end of the hospital corridor
the beeping noise he heard when my aunt’s heart stopped beating still ringing in his ears
and I’ve memorized which stairways to use at school
to avoid seeing the boy who still makes my heart rise up to the back of my throat
because I’ve already tried to cough it up one too many times
and I love how you know that and you’re still here
I love how raw my lips felt after all of the time they spent pressed against yours
and the way your heartbeat sounds when my cheek is pressed to your chest
I fucking love everything about you so much that it makes my head spin
and oh my God, I don’t want you to leave
I’m just scared of what will happen if you stay" (tiredbtw on tumblr)

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you're going to be 16 for only 365 days. and you could die at 17. when your mom asks if you want to sleep in her bed, say yes. one day she'll be in a hospital bed and there won't be enough room to makeup for right now. stop cancelling plans; go out and use your legs while they work. you're guaranteed nothing. stop denying affection. you'll never be able to love someone as a teenager at 35. someone, many someones, are going to tell you they love you. don't keep quiet because you've been told it's too soon. if you love them, say so. be brutally, beautifully honest. go out and change the world. fight for peace, equality and change. when you're 70 and can only watch the news all day you don't want to see the same issues still going on when you had every chance to fight it. stop romanticizing the "i don't need anybody" and the "i don't have feelings" attitude. it's easier to make friends in high school than in nursing homes. embrace feelings and intimacy. don't apologize for caring and don't let anybody make you feel guilty for caring even if it's one sided. you're only a teenager for 2,555 days and then you're 20. life never slows down. bones become fragile and break, people die, and hearts become weak. with every atom in your body, live right now.

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Comment your birthday, find a birthday twin?

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ONE
you were with him; sitting under the ocean of stars above, holding hands while sharing thoughts. you just can’t help but to smile because in every words he say, it just reminds you of why you fell for him. not because of the flowery words nor metaphors he makes just to make butterflies on your stomach. simply because, he is him. he has his unique style that makes you fall in love in every single move he make.
TWO
you woke up. realizing that everything you have only exist in your dreams. that he never loved you the way you thought he did. that he never missed you the way you do every single second. and he will never will. then, you’d ask yourself if you should you be thankful for the day you’ve woke up from the dream you thought would last forever.
THREE
it still breaks your heart, seeing a photo of him on your room. it still breaks your heart, hearing his name from your friend’s mouth. and when they talk about how happy he is right now, you can’t help but to ask yourself when will you be able to find your happiness without finding him.
FOUR
you will try. you will try to get rid of the things that remind you of him. you will try to delete his number from your contact, but damn, it’s saved in your mind. you will try to delete his photos from your gallery and will burn all of the photos with him, but you knew how his eyes looks like and how his lips was curved, cause you crave for it everyday. you will try to fall out of love, but you knew you couldn’t cause no one could fall out of love, all we know is to fall in love and fall apart.
FIVE
you will see him in the middle of the crowd, wearing his smile you once fall into. his eyes, speaking, as if it tells you that he’s happy without you. you managed to keep your heart off, for he is now in love with somebody else. but the feelings are still on, and you can’t find the way out of it. for how many times you tried to forget, fate pulls you back to where you are lost – in the memories he left.
five waves of memories

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creds: @kariinamariscal
"monday 8:27am
i woke up with you on my mind.
you called me babe last night —
my heart is still pounding.
tuesday 10:53pm
today i realized we won’t work.
what we are is hurting her.
and i think she matters more to me than you do.
wednesday 11:52pm
i broke things off with you today.
she barely said a word.
i’ve never regretted anything more than this.
thursday 4:03pm
i shouldn’t have sent that message. 
you shouldn’t have been so okay with receiving it.
friday 9:57pm
i almost messaged you today.
i didn’t.
saturday 8:49pm
i’m walking around town in search of alcohol.
they say that liquor numbs the pain of having a broken heart.
i want to put that to the test.
Sunday 2:32am
i heard you texted a girl you’ve never spoken to before. 
i wonder if it’s because you’re trying to replace me.
i can’t help but wish you weren’t. 
i thought i was irreplaceable." - a week with you on my mind, c.j.n. (via panamaweddings)

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"when you touch my body, i am mars and you are searching for water, and when you're gon e, i miss you the way i think the earth must miss the sun when it's on the other side.
when I hear your voice, I am no longer a shot to the void, I am no longer afraid of my own thoughts- I just exist, suddenly, totally.
I don’t exist in the ways I used to anymore. I’m not a part of a constellation anymore, I am a sun. 
when my heads buried into the crook of your neck, when all the pieces are in motion, we are flying through places I wasn’t even sure existed.
You say I love you, and without warning, I understand what Einstein meant what he said that gravity will not be held accountable for people falling in love.
I say I love you back and it resonates with me, that I’m not falling. I was never falling. We were just colliding, and we made something new and mysterious, something that I think the planets must be jealous of. A frontier that only you and I are lucky enough to explore."
night skies look a little different now // and how could I wish on stars when you’re right here next me.

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2017'S TO DO LIST:
* do not invest in temporary things.
* long drives and poetry.
* take the love that does not bruise.
* lose 30 pounds of sorrow.
* change the batteries. a dead clock maybe be right twice a day. but it's time to stop living in the past.
* clean out the closet.
donate to charity.
but throw away the coat that still clings to the smell of him.
* this year, you asked for too much.
you wanted to love
and to be loved as ferociously in return.
this time, strive to be the reason someone stayed.
want someone to be able to say
loudly and without hesitation:
HER.
I didn’t jump because of her.
* repaint the gate.
* change the lightbulb.
* buy a welcome mat.
* unlock your heart.
* don’t choose who enters.
this time,
choose who doesn’t.

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this song is such a bop tbh ___________________________________________
the first boy I fell in love with was orange. like the spark of a flame, the colourful explosion of a firework, the crisp shade of autumn.
he painted me with radiance of early sunrise and left with the last rays of sunset warming my skin.

the second was blue, like the seashore in the morning. I thought he was so clear, transparent, predictable. I fell in love with the gentle waves of his laughter and submerged myself into deep, deep navy, forgetting for a moment that Ineeded air to live.
I resurfaced just as cerulean became murky black, gasping, with water in my lungs and my lips blue with the chill.

the third one was grey, like a quiet rainfall during the night. he faded fast, but I titled my face up to the steady downpour, basking underneath his attention for as long as I could.

and then I fell in love with you, and I thought you were yellow at first, like the sun. your smile was bright, the twinkle in your eyes brighter, and my breath was gone.

later, I changed my mind and called you black, like the night sky full of constellations, galaxies forming at the sound of your laughter. God knows I spent too many wishes on stars about you.

I realized too late that you were red, like blood spilling between my fingers, like crimson smeared on my lips, like my heart served on a silver platter before you.

loving you gutted me alive, and red was the last thing I saw before I closed my eyes. — by Santa Matilda

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“Before you grow up, you must fall in love 3 times. Once you fall in love with your bestfriend, ruining your friendship forever. This will teach you who your true friends are, and the fine line between friendship and more. Once you must fall in love with someone you believe to be perfect. You will learn that no one is perfect, and that you should never be treated any less than you deserve. And once you must fall in love with someone that is exactly like you. This will teach you who you are, and who you want to be. And when you’re through with all that, you learn that the people who care about you the most are the ones that you hurt, and the ones that hurt you are the ones that you needed the most. But most of all, you learn that love is only a concept and not something that can be defined, it is different to each that experiences it. And you will learn to respect each and every person on this earth, knowing that everyone only wants to be loved.”
— 
Unknown

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20 six-word stories that are absolutely heartbreaking:
1. "the smallest coffins are the heaviest."
2. "Siri, delete Mom from my contacts."
3. "strangers. friends. best friends. lovers. strangers."
4. "goodbye mission control. thanks for trying."
5. "voyager still transmitted, but Earth didn't."
6. "one bullet is a lifetime supply."
7. "Mom taught me how to shave."
8. "introduced myself to my Mother again today."
9. "i just saw my reflection blink."
10. "i met my soulmate. she didn't."
11. "an only son, a folded flag."
12. "passengers, this isn't your captain speaking."
13. "'just married!' read the shattered windshield."
14. "brought roses home. keys didn't fit."
15. "jumped. then i changed my mind."
16. "he hit send, then a tree."
17. "ever seen chalk outlines that small?"
18. "Dad left; a flag came back."
19. "what's your return policy on rings?"
20. "it's our fiftieth, table for one."

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“that kind of love that’s “i was scared until i found you.” that kind of love that’s worth it to try romance again. the “fuck i’ll try cheesy if it just makes you smile” love, the roses and love notes and wine bottles. the twinkle light love, the “let’s go on this romantic date only to spend the whole thing being silly” love, the dancing badly to slow songs love, the “i don’t know how you make me laugh so much but seriously stop it i’m trying to drive” love. the “i trust you love,” calling late at night because a secret just welled up in my throat love, the first person i talk to so i can figure out this decision is you kind of love. the “i was hurt before and had given up but then i found you” love, the incredulous in-awe love, the wonder love, the are you actually real or am i dreaming you love. the “i didn’t believe in soulmates before you” love. that kinda love.” {via inkskinned}
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