"Does anybody really KNOW when its right? And how DO you know? Are there signs? Fireworks? Does it feel comfortable? Or is comfortable a sign that there aren't any fireworks? Is hesitation a sign that it's not right? Or is it just a sign that you're not ready? In matters of love, how do you know when it's right?"
~Carrie Bradshaw, SATC, "Just Say Yes"
Oh my, how much can change in a year!! Last #ValentinesDay I was posting about the #singleLife & getting ready for my man somewhere out there...Lo & behold, he found me!!!
For as long as I can remember, I've been a romantic. Hopefully waiting for the "man of my dreams" to swoop in & knock me off my feet! I wanted that thing they wrote songs about, that "Notebook" movie kind of romance, & I wanted it to be REAL for me; not something that I created in my mind or made excuses for. But, after SO many years of being disappointed, of being told "it's not you, it's me. You're an amazing woman....I'm just not ready for commitment". After years of tears & venting to my friends about being alone & wanting to fulfill that part of my existence, and being told to be patient..don't push a man..just be easy etc., I...WAS...OVER IT!!
So, I got in my pocket & started to work on myself, getting to know me...what mattered to me, what my deal-breakers were, & WHO I wanted to BE in this world. THEN, I start dating with EASE. No pressure, no hardcore expectations, but I DID ask the hard questions. Questions that before, I shied away from because I didn't want to "ruffle any feathers"! But this time around I didn't care! I wasn't trying to force anyone to be with me, I just wanted to be clear about what MY desires were; and if we weren't on the same vibrational wavelength, I could release it with ease.
Of course there were some stumbling blocks along the way, but I finally found the answer to Carrie's question. I'd heard friends speak of this kind of love, but I never knew if it was true, or one of those things people say because it SOUNDS good.
And then, out of nowhere, there he was, making HIS intentions CLEAR. And I KNEW.
Turns out it's true, YOU JUST KNOW. #notebooklove#hesmybird#Vdayvacay
"Do not share your ideas with anyone until they are fully developed. If you start talking about your idea before you have created the momentum, somebody else can offer a little bit of lackful thought about it, & before you know it you've got contradictory vibration going on; and then, it's done. You do not go any further."
When @simoneshepherd first brought this idea to me, like always, I was hype! She thinks of these amazing concepts and writes these scripts effortlessly! But this time she was trusting ME to draft the script! Nervous, but thrilled to be creating with my partner, we got to it! As her directorial vision unfolded, I got even MORE hype! I'm SO excited for you guys to see #FacesofHeartbreak#21417 thanks to an amazing cast that BROUGHT LIFE to my words!! #kiyaroberts#actor#writer#storyteller#WomenwithVision#partners#contentcreators#funnygirls can be #dramatic too! #realactors#range#changeup#allwomeneverything
Yooooo! I think I have a knack for playing the "hating a$$ best friend!! #miseryLOVEScompany Ladies PLEASE don't listen to your "no-man-having-girlfriends !!! #shadeallday #KiyaRoberts#bestsupportingbestie
COME WATCH WITH ME TONIGHT!!!!!! BREAKING NEWS!
Tickets For All SECRETS Showings in ATLANTA & Dallas are almost sold out. Only 35 tickets left. Grab your ticket and meet me there!
This will be a movie premiere like no other! @thesecretsmovie has an experience waiting for you!!
(Red Carpet coverage, Music, Cocktails & more) Tag someone & make it a #girlsnightout or a #datenight.
WED Dec 7th Atlanta, GA: For tickets Secretsmovieatlanta.eventbrite.com
THURS DEC 8th DALLAS
FREE GIVEAWAY TOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!!
Details Below! Soooo, last year for my birthday, The Universe blessed me with a role in a #featurefilm !!! I'm SO proud of this movie! @thesecretsmovie will twist & turn you SO MUCH, you won't be able to go get popcorn! I'm giving away 2 SECRETS #Movietickets in 3 different cities ( Philly, Atlanta & Dallas). Philly - Kimmel Center ( Sat- Nov 26th)
Atlanta - Midtown Arts Center ( Dec 7th)
AND I'LL BE THERE!!️
Come sit next 2 me & give me your HONEST opinion!!! Dallas, TX ( Dec 8th)
Still going!! Lol! #BirthdayBehavior
Yesterday was #AbDay and y'all KNOW how I feel about showing off Pre-Thanksgiving abs!!! Ok ok ok...I promise I'll only post one more picture today! Lol! But when he asks to take pictures of you, how can you say no?? #lovingLOVE
The Life of a #BlackGirl
I might not know my exact lineage, but I know my EXACT #makeup shade! #smh I make a lot of jokes, but I have SO MUCH more to say about our #struggles !!!! #BlackLivesMatter
DM me NOW for COMP TICKETS to the PHENOMENAL stage show I'm in THIS TUESDAY at #UCLA #MinorityReport
I only have 4 left!!!
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Soooo, everyone knows that I'm "the funny girl", but most people don't know how much I THINK...how much I READ...how much I value GREAT conversation, supreme intellect and elevated consciousness!. I am, very much like my mom, a seeker of truth in life. I love to discuss and debate topics that I'm passionate about! And NOW I have a platform to do just that!! Tune into: "HIGHER LEARNING RADIO" every Sunday!! (5pm PST)
LINK IN MY BIO TO TUNE IN!! Listen as my co-host @scottstpatrick and I GO IN on the topics we all care about, but from a place of higher thought and elevated #consciousness!!! TONIGHT'S TOPIC IS: "Is Consciousness Attractive?" What y'all think?!?! CALL IN & CHAT WITH US!!